POWER OF YOUR ATTITUDE AND OUTLOOK 

"The world appears to us as we perceive it"  This one saying explains it all, The objective of this writing is to put forward the issues  that everyone faces in one's life .

There comes a time in our lives when we feel a different sort of void , a void that seems to be permanent. Some fight ,struggle and eradicate the pessimism and fill the before mentioned void with the optimism and positive elements. However ,the others just adjust ,compromise and make themselves comfortable with that void. Make sure you belong to the former category .Moreover, most of the time, there is no such void actually ,it is merely a hallucination that is the result of our own pessimistic mindset.So, the first and foremost objectives of life is clear that is to move towards optimism while rooting out the pessimism completely.

Now the pertinent question here is "How to root out the negativity.” The answer is already in your subconscious mind ,however we simply take no notice of it and accept the suffering.The answer is " Be positive and stay grateful"  But ,unfortunately ,we tag this answer as a mere cliche .

Let me cite an example here to elucidate the so called cliche .We all have two sort of people in our life: one who always thinks that something bad is going to be happen and consequently it happens to them and on the other side ,the one who always thinks that problems are there to be solved and it is rather a delightful fact that they actually face,as such, no problems and lead lives their own ways , take risks for which they are never regretful and stay contented .

The point to differentiate here is the approach. Problems prevail in everyone’s life ,the thing that makes difference is how we react to them. 

Let me put forward the journey to a depressed state. A problem comes in our life (always with a possible solution). Instead of focusing on the ways out ,we out and out focus on the problem ,magnify it,allow it to affect us ,subsequently start ignoring it. In the later stage ,we go to a zone no one is aware that we are in and keep ourselves in solitude .Then originates the overthinking and our interests fall short Conversely,when the problem was thrown at us,if we had fought against it ,conquered it then the whole story would have been different. The former illustrates a loser whereas the latter explains a fighter. Everyone can inculcate any of these two personas ,the choice is entirely one's.

To sum up, in spite of the hardships that may come in our way and the circumstances which prevail around us, we can alway hold our head high. 

As they always say, “It is the tight turns ,steep slopes and inversion that makes a roller coaster ride interesting ,otherwise ,if it were to move on plans ,it would have been boring.”

                                                                                                    -Harmanpreet Mahey

About the author (from his own pen)

This is Harmanpreet Mahey. I belong to the state of five Rivers, Punjab. I reside in a nuclear family. Being the youngest family member, I have always been a pampered child. It helped me to evolve as a confident and bold human being. 
Talking about the formal education, I did my matriculation and senior secondary class from my hometown that is Jalandhar and then for bachelors I moved to Chandigarh to pursue Btech In Mechanical Engineering from UIET Panjab University. 
Immediately after my graduation  I joined TCY learning solutions pvt ltd (Ludhiana) and held the position of Verbal faculty and content developer. I worked with this organization for one year and 4 months

During my schooling and college time, I participated in several quiz and won prizes in the same. While studying in the University, owing to my leadership skills, I was chosen to contest for the post of Joint secretary by Panjab University Students' Union in Panjab University campus students council in the elections of 2015. I was reported as the youngest candidate in the PU elections. 

 As life is not a 100 meters race ...It is a marathon...I am looking forward to achieve higher targets. 
You can contact me here: harmanpreet.mahey5@gmail.com